10 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today

Disclaimer: This post is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the
few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian
guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this
write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he
has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of
this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on
Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to
meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold
digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend
a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one
wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no
jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys.
You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's
already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to
initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a
guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and
the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian!
You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing
on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them.
And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex
once they meet a hot girl.
They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to
their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop
this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies
panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was
implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend
whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number
of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I
don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for
admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and
high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or
not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if
they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it
amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well,
it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have
not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one
woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have
him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your
place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making
you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black
adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have
someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls,
please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would
depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they
think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but
please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st
century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice
smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad
breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that
expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should
also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will
not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive
perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just
practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a
crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating
them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about
This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's
nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego,
there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should
worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would
be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend
to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe
you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not
argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it
remains for you to start calling them 'sir'

8) A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The
answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted
at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most
especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for
Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy
and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear
to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted.
They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger
looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you
should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you
are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women.
It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake
my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What
would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and
the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the
nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his
babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they
break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a joystick and
they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are
just kids in adult clothing.

Source: madailygist.com