10 REASONS WHY GOOD GUYS NEVER GET GOOD GIRLS -Romance
Well, for reasons not far-fetched; most men are categorized into two
groups, the bad guys and the good guys. This may not be true as we
believe that the ideal man is one that walks a fine line between the
two groups.
A lot of women say they want a good and nice guy but usually end up
dating the bad guys (same way men want the simple ladies but end up
dating the "complicated" ones). And this is why it is usually so.
1 Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine
The good guys appear too nice and good to be true. Ladies seem to
think no one can be that nice unless they're saintly or from heaven.
Truth is the good guys are most times being busy acting too nice than
being themselves. The natural instincts of women is to be cautious of
this. The bad boys most times keep it real while the nice guys try as
much as they may not to upset the ladies.
2 They Don't Have Self-Respect!
Nice guys don't have set boundaries as they would go all the way to
please the ladies just as they fail to make any real demands from the
ladies. On the other hand, a bad boy would really not allow a woman
dictate the pace of the relationship or control him in anyway. Often
times, women don't respect men they can control and when they don't
respect you, they can't be attracted to you.
They're so Predictable Which Is quite Boring!
Truth is a lot of people actually live lives that are boring and
predictable which makes them attracted to their opposites who are
mostly fun filled, unpredictable and exciting. This is exactly what
makes bad boys challenging and the nice guys not challenging. Added to
the fact that the nice guys lack excitement and fun, a lot of ladies
would rather opt for the bad guys.
3 Loving Bad Boys Is Part Of The Female Genes
Women are made in a way that nurturing is part of their DNA. They
nurture almost everything around them from children to family. They
also often end up doing it with bad boys because they think living
them would save and rescue them from their bad ways. On the other
hand, women feel the nice guys rarely need saving as they are often
times on the right path.
4 Women Like To Feel Needed
Everyone loves to feel needed and women are no exception. Most of the
time, women see bad guys as people that need "fixing" and they usually
end up making them their project. Some women are of the opinion that
if they can create their ideal man, he won't be able to leave them.
Such women also feel that by helping to fix people around them, they
are distracted from focusing on things that require fixing in their
own lives.
5 Their Sperm Is Weak
Biologically, women are made to strive to procreate with the strongest
genes available. Bad guys send messages unconsciously that their genes
are the best available ones and as such are not scared of losing any
woman or misbehaving whereas nice guys send messages that their genes
are not good enough and as such, they won't misbehave.
6 They Have A Fear Of intimacy
When a woman has the fear of being intimate or committed, she
subconsciously feels that a bad boy won't want commitment and she
won't have to be that close to him for that to happen. A good guy
would eventually want intimacy and commitment which would be scary for
her.
7 They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem
Most people aren't comfortable being around people who treat them
better than they treat themselves. If you're one that doesn't think
much of yourself, the bad boy only reinforces your negative perception
of yourself. A good guy on the other hand treats a lady in a way she's
not familiar with and that fact scares her.
8 The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing
Ladies seem to think that good guys won't be that good in bed. Ladies
sometimes want to be manhandled in bed and they feel nice guys won't
be able to take charge and fulfil their fantasies. A bad boy looks
like one that will be able to get the job done even though this may
not always be the case.
Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy
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groups, the bad guys and the good guys. This may not be true as we
believe that the ideal man is one that walks a fine line between the
two groups.
A lot of women say they want a good and nice guy but usually end up
dating the bad guys (same way men want the simple ladies but end up
dating the "complicated" ones). And this is why it is usually so.
1 Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine
The good guys appear too nice and good to be true. Ladies seem to
think no one can be that nice unless they're saintly or from heaven.
Truth is the good guys are most times being busy acting too nice than
being themselves. The natural instincts of women is to be cautious of
this. The bad boys most times keep it real while the nice guys try as
much as they may not to upset the ladies.
2 They Don't Have Self-Respect!
Nice guys don't have set boundaries as they would go all the way to
please the ladies just as they fail to make any real demands from the
ladies. On the other hand, a bad boy would really not allow a woman
dictate the pace of the relationship or control him in anyway. Often
times, women don't respect men they can control and when they don't
respect you, they can't be attracted to you.
They're so Predictable Which Is quite Boring!
Truth is a lot of people actually live lives that are boring and
predictable which makes them attracted to their opposites who are
mostly fun filled, unpredictable and exciting. This is exactly what
makes bad boys challenging and the nice guys not challenging. Added to
the fact that the nice guys lack excitement and fun, a lot of ladies
would rather opt for the bad guys.
3 Loving Bad Boys Is Part Of The Female Genes
Women are made in a way that nurturing is part of their DNA. They
nurture almost everything around them from children to family. They
also often end up doing it with bad boys because they think living
them would save and rescue them from their bad ways. On the other
hand, women feel the nice guys rarely need saving as they are often
times on the right path.
4 Women Like To Feel Needed
Everyone loves to feel needed and women are no exception. Most of the
time, women see bad guys as people that need "fixing" and they usually
end up making them their project. Some women are of the opinion that
if they can create their ideal man, he won't be able to leave them.
Such women also feel that by helping to fix people around them, they
are distracted from focusing on things that require fixing in their
own lives.
5 Their Sperm Is Weak
Biologically, women are made to strive to procreate with the strongest
genes available. Bad guys send messages unconsciously that their genes
are the best available ones and as such are not scared of losing any
woman or misbehaving whereas nice guys send messages that their genes
are not good enough and as such, they won't misbehave.
6 They Have A Fear Of intimacy
When a woman has the fear of being intimate or committed, she
subconsciously feels that a bad boy won't want commitment and she
won't have to be that close to him for that to happen. A good guy
would eventually want intimacy and commitment which would be scary for
her.
7 They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem
Most people aren't comfortable being around people who treat them
better than they treat themselves. If you're one that doesn't think
much of yourself, the bad boy only reinforces your negative perception
of yourself. A good guy on the other hand treats a lady in a way she's
not familiar with and that fact scares her.
8 The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing
Ladies seem to think that good guys won't be that good in bed. Ladies
sometimes want to be manhandled in bed and they feel nice guys won't
be able to take charge and fulfil their fantasies. A bad boy looks
like one that will be able to get the job done even though this may
not always be the case.
Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy
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